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Did you and your ex break up at Christmas? Are you wondering how you can get back with your ex? Many breakups that occur during the holiday season happen as a result of the emotional tension and excitement present over Christmas and New Year. These breakups are often sudden and many of them seem to happen for no good reason.

If you broke up with your ex and want to find out how you can get back together, you first need to identify the actual cause of the breakup. Sometimes a split in a relationship happens due to a row over something very trivial. Other relationship breakdowns appear to be caused by a trivial occurrence, but are really due to more serious underlying circumstances.

As an example of a breakup happening for trivial reasons, let me tell you a quick story about a couple I helped get back together after a break up a couple of years ago.

An old friend of mine was dumped by his girlfriend on Christmas Day and he swore to me that he didn’t know what he had done wrong. In fact the relationship had been going so well, he had been thinking in terms of buying an engagement ring for Valentine’s Day. This guy was practically dizzy due to the sudden unexpected turnaround in his life.

As I knew his girlfriend well, she was happy to confide in me. It turned out that she didn’t really know what had gotten into her, and she bitterly regretted dumping her guy. What had happened was that she had bought her boyfriend a special gift for Christmas. When he unwrapped it, although he thanked her, she got the feeling he didn’t really like it as much as she hoped. That sparked off a row that ended in her dumping her boyfriend.

Her emotions were a mixture of disappointment because she had high hopes of pleasing him, and anger because she had put a lot of thought into the gift and she felt he was being ungrateful. The result was a sudden explosion of rage during which she said things she didn’t mean. When she had cooled down (and that didn’t take long), she could hardly believe what she had done, and she wished she could turn back the clock.

In less than 24 hours she was feeling upset and ashamed of her unreasonable actions. She regretted hurting the man she loved. She felt horribly embarrassed about the irrational way she had turned on her boyfriend, and she wished with all her heart that she could find a way to get back with her ex. Fortunately I could offer her definite reassurance that her ex boyfriend wanted her back, and a heartfelt apology was all it took for this couple to get back together after the breakup.

All the excitement and unnaturally high emotions that are present during the holiday season account for many relationship breakups, but the same feelings are also the reason why so many couples decide to get engaged at Christmas or New Year. Sometimes the seasonal atmosphere highlights problems that would have caused the breakdown of a relationship eventually, and sometimes it just causes us to blow up trivial things out of all proportion.

If you want to get back with your ex after a sudden breakup, your first step is to find out whether there are deep-seated ongoing problems that just happened to surface, or whether the reason for the quarrel really was as unimportant as it seemed. You can get instant answers to your questions and help to sort out your relationship problems when you download the #1 relationship help guide.

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